Carmen Opera Tickets
How can I help the guy I have feelings for feel more comfortable with me?
I told a male coworker that I had feelings for him and was shot down because he has a girlfriend. Whenever we spent time together before, we had a blast. When he told me that he had a girlfriend, it hit me like a ton of bricks because it came out of NOWHERE..it’s almost as if he had forgotten..
Before I found out about her, he told me that he thought I was amazing and so atypical.
Ever since, it’s been a little awkward but I still want to be his friend. I invited him to see the opera Carmen with my friends and me and he wouldn’t give me a straight up answer about whether or not he wanted to go..so I just bought the tickets.
I just called him and told him that I have them and if he wants to go, he’s welcome and if not, no big loss. He said it would be awkward and date-like but I said I’m not forcing him into this.
How can I make him more comfortable around me, especially since I still want to be his friend? But I still definitely have feelings for him.
This would be something like a parallel universe, or something…
Only I write as the (live-in) girlfriend of the guy that has (or HAD) a former co-worker interested in him. I’d have to say that I probably recognized it before he did and asked him if she knew he had a girlfriend. His response was vague, but he justified it by saying that he had no personal interest or physical attraction toward her, and that his personal life was his business.
I think that the possibility of you remaining ‘just’ friends (with feelings for him) is unrealistic. Likely he won’t/doesn’t feel comfortable socializing with you in the company of his girlfriend knowing how you feel about him.
Any possibility of you remaining friends would hinge on you finding someone else to focus your attention on so that he can see that you have moved on and are happy with someone else.
Arizona Opera’s Carmen
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